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Tired of Being Ghosted After Interviews? Here’s What You’re Doing Wrong

08/04/202508/04/2025 - by Boston Bruce

You ace the interview. The hiring manager nods a lot. You leave feeling like it went great. Then, nothing happens. Days pass, then weeks. The silence gets louder. Welcome to the modern job hunt, where ghosting isn’t just for dating apps. But here’s the truth: while some companies drop the ball, sometimes the silence comes from your side of the court.

You’re Too Generic in Your Responses

Every job feels like the same script: “I’m a hard worker,” “I’m a team player,” “I meet deadlines.” Sound familiar? That’s because hiring managers hear these lines on loop. You may think you’re playing it safe, but you’re actually fading into the background. They want specifics. Paint a picture. Instead of saying you’re organized, say you built a new filing system that saved your team 10 hours a week. Vague equals forgettable. And forgettable is one step away from ghosted.

You’re Not Following Up, Or You’re Following Up Wrong

Silence after the interview doesn’t always mean rejection. Sometimes, the ball is in your court, but instead of moving it forward, you wait. Or worse, you send a follow-up that reads like a guilt trip. A good follow-up isn’t desperate. It’s a reminder. A quick “thank you,” maybe a nod to something you discussed, and a light nudge showing you’re still interested. That’s it. No essays. No passive-aggressive subject lines. Done well, it keeps you top of mind without being overbearing.

You Talk Too Much or Too Little About Legal Stuff

Whether you’re a paralegal, legal assistant, or entry-level associate, if you’re applying to legal roles, how you discuss the law can make or break you. Overloading your answers with legal jargon doesn’t impress anyone. It confuses. On the flip side, brushing over your legal knowledge entirely makes people question if you’re ready. Strike a balance. Focus on how you’ve applied legal principles in real situations. Show that you can think clearly under pressure and write with precision. Legal teams value clear thinkers more than legal buzzwords.

Your Online Presence Doesn’t Match Your Interview Persona

Hiring managers Google you. It’s not paranoia. It’s a procedure. If your LinkedIn looks dusty, your résumé feels outdated, or your Instagram is public and wild, it may raise red flags. The hiring team might love what they saw in the interview. But they’ll rethink if they find inconsistencies or unfiltered chaos online. Clean it up. You don’t need to be polished like a marble floor, but make sure your professional story adds up across platforms.

You Forgot They’re Judging How You Make Them Feel

This part’s often missed. People hire people they like. If you seem too stiff, too rehearsed, or like you’re trying too hard to sound perfect, it gets weird fast. Yes, skills matter. But so does presence. Being polite, listening well, and building a small rapport can leave a bigger impression than rattling off all the case files you’ve touched. The question in their head isn’t just “Can this person do the job?”, it’s also “Would I want to sit next to them for 8 hours?”